When I add reminders via the Apple Watch 4 (iOS 6.0.1) it adds them to the "family" list and not the default "reminders" list. When I add reminders via my iphone 7 (iOS 13.1.2) it uses the default "reminders" list. Not sure how to fix this. It works prior to updating the iOS on both devices. Another issue I am having is that my reminders don't show up in the icloud via the icloud website. They are there as both my iphone and watch are synch'ing with the icloud for reminders but they don't show up on the website.